Jealousy is a negative emotion that damages many otherwise good relationships. Excessive jealousy arises because of one of two unattractive assumptions. These are that your partner can't be trusted or that you are not sufficiently attractive to your partner to hold their interest.
Most jealousy is irrational based on fear of losing the loved one. Ironically it's this fear and the way that it makes people act, which is most likely to bring the feared loss about. Anyone who constantly accuses their partner of misbehaving, expects them to account for their time, pries into their mail, email or telephone communications is behaving unreasonably.
They are probably acting out of fear or at least lack of confidence but that makes their behaviour no less distressing to the person experiencing it.
If either you or your partner is excessively jealous this can only damage your relationship, cause you both misery. In some instances it will it make continuing the relationship impossible.
So how can you tackle this source of harm to your relationship? Firstly by making this decision, if your partner has given you no grounds for suspicion that's probably because there aren't any. In other words they are not misbehaving and you have every reason to trust them.
If you feel that your partner has given you grounds for suspicion then you will need to look at those grounds reasonably. Questions I often ask to people who consult me about this problem are "when"? "Where"? and "why"? do you think that your partner might be being unfaithful?
It's surprising that the people who suffer from excessive jealousy often have partners who are rarely out of their sight. Surely a partner who wanted to be unfaithful would create opportunities to be away from them. However the fact that your partner may work long or irregular hours or travel on business does not mean that they are being unfaithful. The fact that someone may have an opportunity to behave in a particular way doesn't mean that they will or even have any desire to.
These are some of the most common answers that I receive to the question "why, do you think that your partner is being unfaithful"? He's started to come home from work late, lost interest in sex, come home smelling of perfume in the case of a man, s/he has started to lie about where they are spending their time when not at home, I just feel that s/he is having an affair.
Looked at reasonably most of these behaviours could have innocent explanations. Staying late at work for example could simply mean that s/he is trying to catch up on a backlog of work or avoid driving home in the rush hour. People may have reduced interest in sex due to tiredness,depression,hormonal changes,health problems or the side effects of prescribed medication.
The fact that your partner lies about where s/he is spending time when not with you could have a number of explanations some innocent, some less so. Your partner could be lying to cover up an addiction to drink, drugs or gambling. Wouldn't you want to help them if this were the case? Or they could be working extra hours in order to give you a special gift or take you on a wonderful holiday.
"Why" is a very important question? Why did you think that your partner was having an affair when there were so many other possible explanations for their changed behaviour? The chances are that the answer is in your past, did one of your parents cheat on the other? Have you had this negative experience in a past relationship? If so its important to realise that what happened is in the past. I understand that it was painful but dwelling on it is only likely to damage your current relationship. It's really important to let go of this negativity so that it doesn't hurt you and the person that you love. Invest in professional help if necessary. It's worth making the effort.
So far I have addressed this article to the person suffering the torments of their own suspicious mind. Now I want to turn from the perspective of the accuser to the accused. To suffer the torments of your partner's suspicious mind can be hell. As hard as you try to reason with them it seems to fall on deaf ears.
Realising why they are behaving in this illogical fashion may help. Strange as it sounds they are acting out of love (yes, I know that a jealous persons behaviour can seem anything but loving) and fear the fear that you will leave them. Reassurance may help. Try to explain that they are loved and you are not involved with or seeking to be involved with someone else. Try also raising the questions posed above. "Why do you think that I would want to have an affair with someone else"? "What makes you think that I am having an affair"? "When do you think that I spend time with this man or woman"? In answering these questions the accuser will probably reveal his/her need for you as their partner and fear that you might leave. This will make discussion easier as it is getting closer to the true source of the problem. That being not the returning home from work later or seeming to have less interest in sex; these are just the happenings that have triggered insecurity in the accuser.
It might help to share with your partner the everyday reason as to why you are returning from work later or for any other change in your behaviour. Keeping your jealous partner informed would ease their insecurities.
In the same vein if you have a jealousy problem just imagine how irritating it would feel to have your partner constantly questioning how you spend your time when not in their company People tormenting themselves and their partners with jealousy need to learn trust. Your partner is not the parent or past partner who behaved badly in your eyes. Your jealous behaviour is the greatest threat to your relationship not other people who may find your partner attractive.Your partner has chosen you.
Remember the qualities that caused them to choose you and continue to display those qualities. If you are on the receiving end of displays of jealousy try to remember that your accuser is suffering too. It's hard to be sympathetic to someone who is behaving in this fashion. However it's a joint problem so you need to solve it together. Your partner must have some good and loving qualities or you would not be remaining in the relationship. Perhaps with patience and reassurance you can talk things through and solve your problem. It's unlikely to happen overnight. However reassurance could help your partner to relax leading to less jealous displays leading to a better relationship. Or you may need to seek professional help.
This article deals with the subject of irrational jealousy. The situation where life partners are actually having affairs is beyond its scope.
Finally, how to tell if something belongs to you? Let it go, if it comes back to you its yours, if it doesn't it isn't. This applies to people too.
Eileen is a psychologist who turned around her life in the area of relationships by applying the insights of psychology. She is now passionate about helping other women to do the same. Looking for your ideal man or want to improve your relationship claim Eileen's free "Love Magnet" report from her website http://www.eileenedwards.co.uk/ or email eileen@eileenedwards.co.uk
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Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Make Men Fall in Love - Five Things Men Won't Be Able to Resist
Be honest: We know you love your friends, but do you ever look at them and wonder what it is about them that makes men fall in love with them so easily? Do you feel like you are on the outside of the dating game looking in? Do you wish there were somewhere you could turn to learn the tricks of the seduction trade? If you are nodding your head right now, don't worry: You're about to learn the secrets of how to get a man's attention and make him fall in love.
Step #1: Create a solid foundation
A man won't respect you heart and soul if you throw yourself at him, no matter what we are lead to believe. It just doesn't work that way. To make him fall in love, start with friendship and move on from there.
Step #2: Make yourself irresistible
Make him lust after your mind and your soul, not just your body. Share your interests with him, and take an interest in his hobbies, too
Step #3: Be fun, have fun!
Don't get so caught up in making him fall in love with you that you forget how to have good old fashioned fun. Date your partner, don't interview him.
Step #4: Revel in being you
There is no point in making a man fall in love with you if you are pretending to be someone you aren't. True intimacy is built on deep mutual feelings for each other's true selves.
Step #5: Keep the sheets cool for awhile
There will be time for sex once the emotional groundwork has been laid, and anyway, your sexual relationship will be even more fulfilling if it is a physical manifestation of deep emotional connection and not simply the result of one steamy afternoon.
To make a man fall in love with you, focus on becoming his friend. Then, you can move toward a romantic partnership based on the strong friendship you have created. Finally, as the romance blooms and trust has been formed, the sexual aspect of the relationship can be explored. By taking these steps slowly, you can be assured that the man who comes along for the ride is worth travelling with.
If you are looking for a system to make every man adore you, chase you, love you, and commit to you, click Unforgettable Woman Advice. If you're ready for a highly effective method that's different from what every else is teaching, click 77 Secrets to Attract and Keep Him Now. You don't want to miss this!
This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Tina_L._Jones
Step #1: Create a solid foundation
A man won't respect you heart and soul if you throw yourself at him, no matter what we are lead to believe. It just doesn't work that way. To make him fall in love, start with friendship and move on from there.
Step #2: Make yourself irresistible
Make him lust after your mind and your soul, not just your body. Share your interests with him, and take an interest in his hobbies, too
Step #3: Be fun, have fun!
Don't get so caught up in making him fall in love with you that you forget how to have good old fashioned fun. Date your partner, don't interview him.
Step #4: Revel in being you
There is no point in making a man fall in love with you if you are pretending to be someone you aren't. True intimacy is built on deep mutual feelings for each other's true selves.
Step #5: Keep the sheets cool for awhile
There will be time for sex once the emotional groundwork has been laid, and anyway, your sexual relationship will be even more fulfilling if it is a physical manifestation of deep emotional connection and not simply the result of one steamy afternoon.
To make a man fall in love with you, focus on becoming his friend. Then, you can move toward a romantic partnership based on the strong friendship you have created. Finally, as the romance blooms and trust has been formed, the sexual aspect of the relationship can be explored. By taking these steps slowly, you can be assured that the man who comes along for the ride is worth travelling with.
If you are looking for a system to make every man adore you, chase you, love you, and commit to you, click Unforgettable Woman Advice. If you're ready for a highly effective method that's different from what every else is teaching, click 77 Secrets to Attract and Keep Him Now. You don't want to miss this!
This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Tina_L._Jones
Ever Wonder What Makes a Guy Fall in Love? Find Out Here!
Do you know what makes a guy fall in love? Are you feeling hopelessly and interminably single? Do you think you'll never be able to turn a casual relationship into something more long term? Don't fear. Making a man fall in love with you doesn't have to be a matter of spinning a roulette wheel and hoping for the best. In the next two minutes, you will learn how to make a man fall in love with you.
• Be his friend. • Be someone he can confide in • Be someone he can have fun with • Take an interest in what he loves • Teach him something • Learn from him • Know when to talk • Know when to listen • Know when to give him his space • Know when to give him your attention • Respect his friendships (even if you can't stand his friends) • Ditto about his mother • Trust him • Be trustworthy • Be confident • Take pride in yourself • Take care of yourself • Be comfortable in sweatpants (Don't be high maintenance!) • Be open to adventure • Understand that men and women are different (he's not going to think like you, so don't try) • Appreciate him for him • Embrace his quirks • Don't try to change him
Finally, and perhaps most importantly, be someone he will want to grow old with. Be the kind of woman he could see himself growing old with. It's not enough to be someone he is physically attracted to; your looks will fade. But if you are someone he can feel comfortable with, have fun with, talk to and be interested in for a long time, chances are he will be.
Every day, work at making your man feel like he is the only man in the world for you. Whether it's a love note on the bathroom mirror or simply a day to himself, make sure he knows you only have eyes for him. Men like the women in their lives to make them feel special, and the woman who can do that will be the one he loves. To make him fall in love with you, focus on your friendship first and then the rest will fall into place.
If you are looking for a system to make every man adore you, chase you, love you, and commit to you, click Unforgettable Woman Advice. If you're ready for a highly effective method that's different from what every else is teaching, click 77 Secrets to Attract and Keep Him Now. You don't want to miss this!
This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Tina_L._Jones
• Be his friend. • Be someone he can confide in • Be someone he can have fun with • Take an interest in what he loves • Teach him something • Learn from him • Know when to talk • Know when to listen • Know when to give him his space • Know when to give him your attention • Respect his friendships (even if you can't stand his friends) • Ditto about his mother • Trust him • Be trustworthy • Be confident • Take pride in yourself • Take care of yourself • Be comfortable in sweatpants (Don't be high maintenance!) • Be open to adventure • Understand that men and women are different (he's not going to think like you, so don't try) • Appreciate him for him • Embrace his quirks • Don't try to change him
Finally, and perhaps most importantly, be someone he will want to grow old with. Be the kind of woman he could see himself growing old with. It's not enough to be someone he is physically attracted to; your looks will fade. But if you are someone he can feel comfortable with, have fun with, talk to and be interested in for a long time, chances are he will be.
Every day, work at making your man feel like he is the only man in the world for you. Whether it's a love note on the bathroom mirror or simply a day to himself, make sure he knows you only have eyes for him. Men like the women in their lives to make them feel special, and the woman who can do that will be the one he loves. To make him fall in love with you, focus on your friendship first and then the rest will fall into place.
If you are looking for a system to make every man adore you, chase you, love you, and commit to you, click Unforgettable Woman Advice. If you're ready for a highly effective method that's different from what every else is teaching, click 77 Secrets to Attract and Keep Him Now. You don't want to miss this!
This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Tina_L._Jones
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Romantic Stimulus Package - How to Write a Love Song As a Romantic Gift to Your Intimate Partner
Are you looking for a gift that stimulates romance in your intimate relationship? Learn from a renowned composer how to write a simple love song as a romantic, everlasting gift to your intimate partner.
In 2006, a renowned composer named Peter Lieberson wrote a love song for his wife, mezzo soprano Lorraine Hunt Lieberson, so that she could perform it.
The New York Times called it a rapturously lyrical work for voice and orchestra, a setting of five sonnets by the Chilean poet, Pablo Neruda, that was like a love letter from the composer to his wife, who was grappling with breast cancer at the time.
Some of the last extraordinary performances she gave before her death at 52 in July, 2006 were of the "Neruda Songs". Mr. Lieberson wrote another piece for his wife that she was supposed to perform with the New York Philharmonic in May, 2006, but she was too ill to sing.
Soon after her death, Mr. Lieberson learned he had lymphoma. His illness delayed the premiere of "The World In Flowers" for three years until May 2009, when its debut received a warm ovation and a glowing review in the New York Times.
We are not concerned with critic's comments of Mr. Lieberson's cantatas; we're focused on his creative process and how to model it when you create a love song for your beloved.
What inspired his lyrics?
Mr. Lieberson included verses from romantic poet, Pablo Neruda, in both cantatas. For "The World In Flower," Mr. Lieberson assembled words from 11 mystics and poets that best expressed his exhilaration, tenderness and viewpoints on life and love. Then he matched the lyrics with music he composed.
How do you create your love song?
If you are not a music composer or lyricist, you can choose a stirring melody from a classical, country or pop piece of music. You can buy an instrumental or karaoke version of a song you like. Then you can assemble words and verses from authors you admire to use as lyrics for your love song.
You won't need to buy a legal license to use music or words of other composers or authors, unless you plan to perform your love songs in public.
If you're creating the love song as a romantic stimulus for your intimate relationship to be enjoyed solely by the two of you, feel free to choose music, words or verses that make you feel exhilarated, tender, romantic, and inspired by love. Then sing or record your love song and present it to your beloved as a testament to your everlasting love.
And if you're single and seeking a romantic muse for your love song, I invite you to meet savvy singles for video chats, expert interviews, book tours and travel adventures in the Singles Club of Tribe Of Blondes. Not a hair color, it's a resilient vibrant spirit that unites us and fuels our passionate choices and personal triumphs.
Claim your free, one-month trial membership in this exciting online community of singles when you visit http://www.tribeofblondes.com and click on SINGLES CLUB.
This Singles Club was created by author, Hadley Finch, who wrote the novel TRIBE OF BLONDES.
Inspired by Hadley's online dating adventures in three continents after her long marriage ended in divorce, her novel reveals real strategies to help you survive a break up, start fresh and love again in the resilient spirit that gives the Tribe it's name.
TRIBE OF BLONDES is available on amazon, in your favorite book stores or in their online home at http://www.tribeofblondes.com
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Hadley_Finch
In 2006, a renowned composer named Peter Lieberson wrote a love song for his wife, mezzo soprano Lorraine Hunt Lieberson, so that she could perform it.
The New York Times called it a rapturously lyrical work for voice and orchestra, a setting of five sonnets by the Chilean poet, Pablo Neruda, that was like a love letter from the composer to his wife, who was grappling with breast cancer at the time.
Some of the last extraordinary performances she gave before her death at 52 in July, 2006 were of the "Neruda Songs". Mr. Lieberson wrote another piece for his wife that she was supposed to perform with the New York Philharmonic in May, 2006, but she was too ill to sing.
Soon after her death, Mr. Lieberson learned he had lymphoma. His illness delayed the premiere of "The World In Flowers" for three years until May 2009, when its debut received a warm ovation and a glowing review in the New York Times.
We are not concerned with critic's comments of Mr. Lieberson's cantatas; we're focused on his creative process and how to model it when you create a love song for your beloved.
What inspired his lyrics?
Mr. Lieberson included verses from romantic poet, Pablo Neruda, in both cantatas. For "The World In Flower," Mr. Lieberson assembled words from 11 mystics and poets that best expressed his exhilaration, tenderness and viewpoints on life and love. Then he matched the lyrics with music he composed.
How do you create your love song?
If you are not a music composer or lyricist, you can choose a stirring melody from a classical, country or pop piece of music. You can buy an instrumental or karaoke version of a song you like. Then you can assemble words and verses from authors you admire to use as lyrics for your love song.
You won't need to buy a legal license to use music or words of other composers or authors, unless you plan to perform your love songs in public.
If you're creating the love song as a romantic stimulus for your intimate relationship to be enjoyed solely by the two of you, feel free to choose music, words or verses that make you feel exhilarated, tender, romantic, and inspired by love. Then sing or record your love song and present it to your beloved as a testament to your everlasting love.
And if you're single and seeking a romantic muse for your love song, I invite you to meet savvy singles for video chats, expert interviews, book tours and travel adventures in the Singles Club of Tribe Of Blondes. Not a hair color, it's a resilient vibrant spirit that unites us and fuels our passionate choices and personal triumphs.
Claim your free, one-month trial membership in this exciting online community of singles when you visit http://www.tribeofblondes.com and click on SINGLES CLUB.
This Singles Club was created by author, Hadley Finch, who wrote the novel TRIBE OF BLONDES.
Inspired by Hadley's online dating adventures in three continents after her long marriage ended in divorce, her novel reveals real strategies to help you survive a break up, start fresh and love again in the resilient spirit that gives the Tribe it's name.
TRIBE OF BLONDES is available on amazon, in your favorite book stores or in their online home at http://www.tribeofblondes.com
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Tips For Women For Surviving Sexless Marriages - How to Improve the Intimacy in Your Relationship
Surviving sexless marriages isn't always easy. Once the intimacy starts to disappear out of a relationship it can be the beginnings of the loss of the entire marriage. Many couples who deal with sexless relationships lose the emotional connection too and will eventually divorce. If you're a woman in a situation like this you don't have to give in to the idea of your marriage falling apart. You can save the relationship and have a much richer, fulfilling intimate life with your spouse than you ever dreamt possible.
One of the best tips for surviving sexless marriages is to not place blame. Although your husband may be the one shying away from intimacy, you are his partner and therefore you're support is needed to solve the issue. First, think about what may be behind his unwillingness or inability to be intimate with you. It's not always a physical issue. Sometimes a man can feel emotionally disconnected from his spouse and this is behind his disinterest in sex. If there's an issue that has been eating away at the foundation of your marriage you should address it now. Work with your husband to find a way to resolve it so that extra tension isn't there anymore.
Weight is often a factor in why a woman doesn't want to share intimacy with her husband. The same thing can happen to a man. You may not think that improving body image is one of the ways of surviving sexless marriages, but it is. If you have noticed your husband complaining about the way he looks or he is often saying he needs to lose weight, subtly help him with that. Work together in the kitchen to cook healthier meals and start working out together. This will help forge a new bond between you two and as he starts to lose weight, you may just notice his libido increasing.
Specific things you say and do can encourage natural responses within your husband that make him crave to be intimate with you. Saying or doing the wrong thing will only worsen the problem and can lead to your husband feeling emotionally detached from you. Find out what you need to be doing to help your husband regain his desire for you from this Helpful Site.
Most couples struggle with discussing the issue of a sexless marriage and as a result, nothing ever changes and the wife becomes more and more frustrated. You can help your husband rediscover his desire for you. Don't waste another day wishing your intimate life was more fulfilling, change it now.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Gillian_Reynolds
One of the best tips for surviving sexless marriages is to not place blame. Although your husband may be the one shying away from intimacy, you are his partner and therefore you're support is needed to solve the issue. First, think about what may be behind his unwillingness or inability to be intimate with you. It's not always a physical issue. Sometimes a man can feel emotionally disconnected from his spouse and this is behind his disinterest in sex. If there's an issue that has been eating away at the foundation of your marriage you should address it now. Work with your husband to find a way to resolve it so that extra tension isn't there anymore.
Weight is often a factor in why a woman doesn't want to share intimacy with her husband. The same thing can happen to a man. You may not think that improving body image is one of the ways of surviving sexless marriages, but it is. If you have noticed your husband complaining about the way he looks or he is often saying he needs to lose weight, subtly help him with that. Work together in the kitchen to cook healthier meals and start working out together. This will help forge a new bond between you two and as he starts to lose weight, you may just notice his libido increasing.
Specific things you say and do can encourage natural responses within your husband that make him crave to be intimate with you. Saying or doing the wrong thing will only worsen the problem and can lead to your husband feeling emotionally detached from you. Find out what you need to be doing to help your husband regain his desire for you from this Helpful Site.
Most couples struggle with discussing the issue of a sexless marriage and as a result, nothing ever changes and the wife becomes more and more frustrated. You can help your husband rediscover his desire for you. Don't waste another day wishing your intimate life was more fulfilling, change it now.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Gillian_Reynolds
What is the Best Way to Kiss Him? Here's How to Make Him Go Crazy!
What's the best way to kiss him? Should you go first, or should you wait for him to make the move? Is there a way to make him want to kiss you even more than usual? It's always nice to kiss him for the first time, but remember that it can also set the tone for the rest of the relationship.
By today's standards, kissing him first is fine and acceptable. But by doing so, you run the risk of turning him off, since most of the better guys out there would like to be in control of the relationship -- even if it's just starting out. So it's usually better to wait until he makes the move.
But even then, you can do a few things to make him go crazy for the next kiss. The first kiss is usually light and sweet -- if you've seen the Will Smith movie "Hitch," he's likely to use the 90/10 rule. He'll go 90% of the distance, and wait for you to close the remaining 10% to make the kiss.
Here's the thing -- try not to get carried away with the first kiss. Kiss him lightly and quickly, holding it only as long as he does. When he pulls away, don't force the issue and end the kiss. The lull after the first kiss builds tension and anticipation, and this is precisely what can make him go crazy!
If you were talking before the first kiss, then continue the conversation after it. The longer the lull, the more anticipation it's going to build. If you don't resist, he'll lean in for another kiss -- again, keep the kiss relatively light, and pull away when he does.
After the conversation dies down to silence again and you're waiting for the inevitable third kiss, lean in first this time -- and you'll be surprised when he pulls you closer and kisses you more passionately. This is all that built-up tension getting released, and you'll love every moment of it.
The third kiss is often a good time to lean in for the kiss first, but you can keep teasing him by waiting a few more kisses. The longer you wait before you kiss him, the more he'll want it from you at the end.
If you are looking for a system to make every man adore you, chase you, love you, and commit to you, click Unforgettable Woman Advice. If you're ready for a highly effective method that's different from what every else is teaching, click 77 Secrets to Attract and Keep Him Now. You don't want to miss this!
This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Tina_L._Jones
By today's standards, kissing him first is fine and acceptable. But by doing so, you run the risk of turning him off, since most of the better guys out there would like to be in control of the relationship -- even if it's just starting out. So it's usually better to wait until he makes the move.
But even then, you can do a few things to make him go crazy for the next kiss. The first kiss is usually light and sweet -- if you've seen the Will Smith movie "Hitch," he's likely to use the 90/10 rule. He'll go 90% of the distance, and wait for you to close the remaining 10% to make the kiss.
Here's the thing -- try not to get carried away with the first kiss. Kiss him lightly and quickly, holding it only as long as he does. When he pulls away, don't force the issue and end the kiss. The lull after the first kiss builds tension and anticipation, and this is precisely what can make him go crazy!
If you were talking before the first kiss, then continue the conversation after it. The longer the lull, the more anticipation it's going to build. If you don't resist, he'll lean in for another kiss -- again, keep the kiss relatively light, and pull away when he does.
After the conversation dies down to silence again and you're waiting for the inevitable third kiss, lean in first this time -- and you'll be surprised when he pulls you closer and kisses you more passionately. This is all that built-up tension getting released, and you'll love every moment of it.
The third kiss is often a good time to lean in for the kiss first, but you can keep teasing him by waiting a few more kisses. The longer you wait before you kiss him, the more he'll want it from you at the end.
If you are looking for a system to make every man adore you, chase you, love you, and commit to you, click Unforgettable Woman Advice. If you're ready for a highly effective method that's different from what every else is teaching, click 77 Secrets to Attract and Keep Him Now. You don't want to miss this!
This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Tina_L._Jones
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