"I'm sorry. I don't love you anymore." If your spouse just moved out, it might seem like the end of the world. A relationship breakdown impacts every aspect of your life. It is bad enough if there's only you; it gets a thousand times worse if there are children.
If you're like most of us, the word 'divorce' fills you with dread. That's natural. But, if you continue in that state of mind for too long, you'll end up with the very thing you want to avoid. So, you need to do something solid to stop the divorce and rebuild your marriage.
Stop the panic. Fear is a very bad policy maker. Try to put your marriage and life with your spouse in perspective. Find out what went wrong.
Try to let go of your feelings of pain and bitterness. Only then can you think rationally and be patient enough to make the adjustments required.
Compromise is the key to a successful relationship. Make a list of the points of confrontations between you and your spouse. Strike off those things that really do not count. Make an action plan for things that do.
Express your desire to stop the divorce. This may seem demeaning or painful. But you've got to stake your claim if you want to stop the painful process from going forward.
At times, making yourself too available or submissive will push your spouse away. In that case, take a strong stand and ask them to make a choice. When pushed to the corner, they may come back to their senses.
Try to start afresh. Remember that your spouse probably associates a lot of negative emotions with 'you'. A physical change will jolt them out of this state of mind. Get a new haircut or join a gym. Make the change apparent.
If you have common friends and you believe that they are up to the task, get them to mediate. Sometimes, they may be able to convince your spouse faster than you can.
Your marriage is a precious bond and you simply cannot afford to let your relationship end in divorce. Find some common ground by pulling the monsters out of the cupboard. Read. Talk to someone who cares for you. Empower yourself with tools to help you stop your divorce and rebuild your marriage.
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